Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Newness

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Saturday, December 20, 2008

Epiphany

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Thursday, December 11, 2008

It's Christmas Time - EEP!

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Thursday, December 4, 2008

Suggestions

In conjunction with the new branding (see Meow), I need a new picture.

Any ideas? No catsuits, please. Use your creativity.

I'll send the best idea my eBook "30 Days to Sensuality" as a thank you!

Meow


What a difference a week makes!

Last week I met with (yet another) coach. This one is one of those coaches that, in general, I would never get to talk to as his fee for an hour is about what I make in a month! When I get an opportunity to talk to someone like that in person for free, you can bet I'll jump on it!

This last quarter I've been working on a couple of principles. One is "Kill the Turtle" - stop procrastinating, jump in and git 'er done! The amount that I've accomplished these last couple of months with that in mind has been truly staggering. There are things that have been on my to do list for many months that are finally done. I have curtains up, less stuff in my garage, a little extra money in my pocket and a more organized workspace and so much more. Phew!

The other is "Twist your head" - look at things from a new and different perspective. This one was a little harder to, pardon the pun, wrap my head around. How do you see things differently? I can only see things the way I see them. That's where someone else's head comes in handy.

I met with Berny Dohrman twice last week and both times he made my head spin. The difference between the way someone who makes 30 million a year thinks vs. someone who made 30 grand really is night and day. It took him moments to understand my business, open my eyes to new ideas and totally rebrand it. As a friend said of her meeting with him - it's like he had my business plan right in front of him!

So, welcome to the NEW and IMPROVED. He gave me a name that will make my business more accessible, draw more people in and open the door for a myriad of angles.

One thing I was denying in my approach is my naughty side. As discussed a couple of posts ago, sex is a big part of my life and my identity. I was trying to "clean up" Sensuality by making it less about sex. I still believe that Sensuality is misunderstood and about so much more than we give it credit for. However, how I am is very sexual and if I deny that part to try to make things more palatable, I'm not being true to me.

One thing many have told me is that my presence gives them the permission to play bigger. A friend told me the other night that he misses having me around because I have always been an inspiration to him to not hold back and to be completely honest and open and fearless. Part of the reason people feel this way around me is because I am completely in touch with all sides of me, including my sexuality and am unafraid to express it.

Whenever I meet someone for the first time, it generally takes very little time before they are sharing some intimate details about themselves, and very often those have to do with their fears or hang ups around sex.

I'm a nice girl. I am sweet and big hearted, forgiving and easy going. However, I'm also a bad girl who loves the down and dirty.

Berny came up with a name that covers all of this: BAD KITTY. Adding the tagline JOY POWER expresses what I want to help people towards more succintly than my cumbersome and always needing to be explained SENUSUALITY COACH.

BAD KITTY and JOY POWER conjur an image. To some it conjurs porn, but that is the minority. It draws people in, they want to know more. As Berny said as we closed, people will be curious and be drawn to you now and THEN you can explain to them what you do and tell them what you want instead of explaining and then hoping they'll come along.

Thank you Berny for twisting my head backwards and helping me see things totally new.

Pass along the BAD KITTY to your friends! This is a movement! We need more BAD KITTIES spreading their JOY POWER to the world!

From THE BAD KITTY: JOY POWER.... BE BEAUTIFUL, BE YOU!

www.thebadkitty.com